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Hello  People, I know we are almost 2 days away from the second half of the uear and while this fact should bring a sense of urgency and destiny.it brings panic. There is this feeling of O Lord,it is another year passing again,is it not going to happen this year  While it may seem like nothing is happening, the truth is that God is working behind the scenes, and a great proof of our belief in him is our ability to be grateful. As we approach the second half of the year,I urge you dear Reader to Count your blessings. This year, there have been many surprises with various terrorist attacks. People wave their family members goodbye in the morning and never see them again.Some of these people who have what we may desire are no more here but alas,you are still here. Coming from a family that has a culture of gratitude I have also had to learn to be grateful and to count my blessings at all times.I have learnt that an attitude of gratitude helps one to maximize the moment. Y

There comes a time in the life of most women, when you tell yourself ‘ This is it. I choose him’ or ‘ I accept him’ , depending on how many proposals you get.  I wondered for many years how I would know the right choice to make. How do I choose one above all else, who is not Jesus?  People had asked me in the past, ‘ What will he do, to prove he is ‘ the one’ ?”  I really didn’t know the answer to that question and I told God not to tell me, but to show me, when the time was right. A friend gave me a message by a wonderful woman called Jill Briscoe titled ‘finding the will of God’. Jill said God tends to give you lots of little lights, like an airport runway, so you see clearly where you need to land. I’d like to share one of the lights that confirmed my choice. So I had just started talking to this dude, at one of the toughest times of my life. I was rounding up my thesis and it was taking everything out of me.  I had been praying to meet someone so I had to give him some little

Well like I said last time, this online thing appears to be the way forward and I am happy to say I got a date with that nice chap and was looking forward to it. Alleluyah I  did not sow in vain . However the date with the bloke didn’t happen as he turned up about half an hour late to the Southbank Centre. He did e-mail to say he was going to be late but half an hour, really? This lady had to leg it, especially as I really did have somewhere else to be later that day. And like how all good things finish just when you start enjoying yourself, my trial period finally came to an end almost unceremoniously but with lessons I would share with you. There are nutters everywhere and just because it is a Christian site does not eliminate that fact (after all, Judas was among the twelve). It may be a Christian site you intend to try or are using but I guarantee you, there are nutters there, so hold your wits together. If you have really bad self-esteem DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT try to init

Dear Wonderful Readers, I really do apologize  that we were unable to publish last week. We have been facing technology challenges but would be back on track. One of our writers went on a journey in this search for the "right one". We would be sharing this but to keep the identity of the others involved, we would be using anonymous names. Wondering what it was?It is something we all do, we use it everytime these days and most of all we do have gone digital .We buy online,eat online ,make friends online and when it comes to dating online,don't even go there!People are sceptical and if you want to see some reaction, try asking it in the next Question& Answer Session in your Church.It sets a fireball but hopefully here as you continue to read "The Journey",you will be entertained, inspired and informed.Watch this space for "The Journey". Gracillis