dishusbandmata

The story goes that Miss Jay and I met on the first day at Nursery and hit it off at once, we ended up attending the same primary and secondary schools. Went to separate universities but always caught up during the holidays, strangely met while on National Service in the same city and ended up living together in her family home. From when I knew my name,Jay has been a constant.From our friendship, our parents and other siblings became friends.We laughed, cried, fought, quarrelled and shared secrets. It was and still is a beautiful relationship. In 2004, she met this bloke and by March 2005 they were headed for the altar. I was busy as a bumble bee before, during and after the wedding prep. It was a glorious day, with exhausted feet I went back to my parents’ home hoping to get some much needed rest before leaving for the city.Early the following morning. 5:30am, mummy comes to my room “ Moti ,daddy wants you”. Oh no, not one of Daddy’s early morning talks, it means am in trouble! ...

  So they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.I agree but if the stomach is apparently his chief concern in his dealings with you, then like my friend Ijeamaka Palmer would say, it may be time to call yourself to a big meeting, after all no matter how much your girlfriends would love to be bridesmaids , none of them will be willing  to come to a wedding between you and a stomach. I mean if his stomach is the only thing he thinks about, (Esau did that and lost his birthright), then  perhaps it can be said   that that's as far as you are going to get, his heart is somewhere else and the earlier you make that distinction the better. Last week some of my girlfriends and I were discussing about whether  it was best to show your boyfriend or significant "other" your cooking skills before marriage. Hmmmm,well I told them the following story which I would like to share. Some years ago, I was out of work and I had this guy who was supposed to...

Hi our dear Readers, How are we all today?Remember two weeks ago, we had one of our writers as a Guest in a Radio Reality Show.Well I believe it went so well that she has been invited to come again today. If you missed the last one on"Waiting Room" you can get excerpts on her Facebook page-Grace Tom-Lawyer  or check "Beautiful Mind TV" on You Tube. She will be on a Reality Talk Show today on a Radio  Reality Show  to talk about "Don't drag me to the altar" and how to face pressures as a Single lady. It promises to be interesting as she will be joined by another Guest and the bottom line is, it all has to do with  "husbandmata " so make sure you tune in today.  Programme :Beautiful Mind -Reality Talk Show Station : Peace&Joy Radio Date:  Wednesday 27 April , 2016 Time :5-6:30pm GMT  Install  TuneIn App on your phone&Find Peace&Joy Station The article of this week will be out on Friday and it surely is something to look for...

The wedding night is one night most women look forward to, especially    if they are  believers. I   was not   left out,I had   dreamt about the wedding night for years. I imagined  severally what a glorious night it would   be. Halleluyah. Then again I thought what’s the big deal and decided nothing should  happen that night rather    I chose to    carry it over three nights. The hype among Christians about the wedding night is just something else especially if one is a virgin.I met my hubby after many years of praying, fasting   and so much more it happened(story for another day).On my 38 th   birthday I got married.We had agreed or rather I told “B” we should sow  that night and the next two days as a seed, yea yea I  am a cheerful giver   who    just loves   to sow into the kingdom.So the wedding night arrived (gonna make this a night to remember) and guess who...

Hi our dear Readers, Hope we are having a fab week so far.It is not yet Friday though but something exciting is happening which we have decided to share with you now as it will be too late on Friday. As you all know, "dishusbandmata" is about the life we as women live and we have half  of  our writers as Single ladies now (forgive but I  could not resist the urge  to emphasize the last word )and the other half are married. One of our writers will be on a Reality Talk Show tomorrow on the Radio to talk about "Waiting Room" and how life has been as a Single lady. It promises to be interesting as she will be joined by some others who are experiencing waiting in another area and the bottom line is, it all has to do with "husbandmata " so make sure you tune in tomorrow  Programme :Beautiful Mind -Reality Talk Show Station : Peace&Joy Radio Date: Wednesday 13 April , 2016 Time :5-6:30pm GMT  Install  TuneIn App on your phone&Find Peace...

It is just about the end of a very busy week for us down here and I hope that you have eventually found time to put your feet up.I  must confess that  I have been thinking about what to write and eventually decided to continue from where we stopped. Remember the last time, on "Marrying by Grace"someone was trying to approach me claiming he had been told to marry Grace and to be honest, there are a variety of ways I have heard proposals done. There is no really one way of doing it as long as it works for both parties, the only trouble is when it does not. I still remember those days before the era of the teachings of  Pastor Bimbo Odukoya of blessed memory where it just seemed that the teaching prevalent on marriage was on finding the will of God. This will of God was something that was received usually by the brother and most times, no other thing was taken into consideration apart from receiving and finding the will.The more spectacular and unusual the revelation, the ...

Last week, we commemorated the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ and I would like you to know dear friends that effect of the season has also  visited  this blog. It has been a while but I strongly believe the time to start again is now. This time though to streghten and help with the vision, I will be joined by a group of five other writers from various walks of life with varied personal and counselling experiences The aim is not only  to keep us entertained  but educated and informed. As we share experiences, feel free to share your comments as we aim to be as real and  interactive as possible We hope to put up a new post every friday so you can have somehing to start your weekend  with, So watch this space next Friday Gracillis